Yes it's a hard situation, especially when you care for the person. It sounds like he's more interested in looking after his habit though, especially if he vanishes for days at a time.
We've never really spoken on here before but I read your posts. And you sound like a lovely and happy person. You deserve someone who makes you happy rather than causes you anxiety.
Thank you @mazzle It is tough but it is also helpful for me to hear so many people repeating the same: get rid of him. I am a very smiley person and he took my smile away.
Thank you thank you, really!
I’m sure you’ll make the right choice for your happiness. :)
It will be nice to see your smile in my feed again.