Good That You're Willing

in #blog2 months ago

So I guess redundancy with, I guess, redundant. I won't even say redundant ignorance. But, yeah, I get it.

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I get it. Yes, I know. I'm not a big fan of a lot of redundancy either.

But it's good that you understand what it is and where it comes from. And as you said, you know, you have people around you that will let you know that you've gotten out of pocket if some anger does flare up in you. And it's good that you're willing to accept that and allow them to give you that feedback, because that helps save you from getting yourself potentially in trouble in another environment.

If we aren't willing to listen to people, especially someone that knows us, someone that cares about us, we have to be willing to allow them to share perspectives with us, observations of what they see about us, because we live it. And we aren't we live it, not live it. We're living it.

Those are our lived behaviors and life experiences. And they may have become so comfortable within us that we don't realize the impact. Because remember, I said one of the reasons we may respond or people may say things to us or about us and not even realize that what they're saying could have been offensive because that's the environment they came from.

It was normal to say certain things or demonstrate certain behaviors. So they don't realize that, hey, when you leave your world, it doesn't work anywhere else. But in your your personal environment.

And that's something we have to keep in mind. So thank you for sharing that, Davis. Edith, I see your hand and then we'll go to Grace.