Different

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We become not a melting pot but a beautiful mosaic. Different people, different beliefs, different yearnings, different hopes, different dreams.

- Jimmy Carter -



We’re all different thankfully; imagine a world full of the same type of people. It’d be somewhat uninspiring I’d say, rather bland: Same personalities, same likes and dislikes, same thoughts, same faults and frailties, same emotion, fears, prejudices, tolerance, intolerance and passions...Boring.

It’s our differences that keep things interesting on both a personal level and collectively as a community.

Here on Hive it’s the same. What one likes another may not, where one sees value another sees a lack of it, or is simply indifferent. Again, that’s what makes the community ebb and flow, just like in the real world, and whilst we may not always click with a particular Hive user or their content there'll be others which whom we do click; just like real life.

With Hive being monetised there’s a different dynamic when compared against real life though. Imagine if everything you said in real life was rated, weighed and measured, and you were paid commensurate with someone else’s reaction to it. Imagine being judged favourably, unfavourably or simply ignored based on everything you said - Well, that’s what happens on the blockchain.

I’ve been thinking about this over the last few days; how a user presents themselves on the blockchain through their posts and commenting and what they gain, or fail to gain.

Clearly the better one presents their work the better the reaction is going to be; on Hive that means curation rewards. Sure, there’s several very large accounts and curation initiatives out there simply voting just about anything for the curation rewards they gain from it but, in my mind, it’s the curation one gets from real people that means the most. Those curation projects and large accounts can move on and cease to vote on a person at the drop of a hat so it’s not a reliable, or solid, relationship - Just a little bit of reward now, with no real guarantee of more in the future.

No, it’s the relationships one builds on the blockchain that means the most in my humble opinion. Not only does it bring a greater enjoyment when one engages back and forth with someone they like and value, or a complete stranger for that matter, but the curation-rewards tend to be more consistent and will usually continue well into the future, reliably.

Would you rather one single big vote and then nothing, or would you rather build and nurture lasting relationships, have some fun and engagement and get ongoing votes for a long time? That’s a rhetorical question folks, one you must answer for yourselves. For me, it’s the latter.

In June 2017 when I joined and began to post and interact with others and I put a lot of focus into engagement on their posts, valid and relevant engagement. It was reciprocated, unsurprisingly, and the votes began to flow on my posts. To this day I still have those valued relationships, still engage and still get votes from them. That’s pretty cool right? It's like I've invested and the returns continue to come back to me.

So back to my thoughts about how one is perceived on the blockchain.

One’s post is often the first thing other users see when they scroll the feeds. The title, the image and maybe a line or two of text. People think in images, not words, so that image is vitally important to give a person pause, to make them cease scrolling and linger on your post. If you’ve got the other elements right then you may even entice them to click-through to your post, take a skim or read, and hopefully engage and vote. The key element I’m trying to focus on is that first impression; there’s really only one opportunity to make it.

I’m not sure when it started happening but I’ve noticed the rise of the long title. I wrote a post on it the other day, you can see it here. What happened to the short, punchy or catchy title that the media and writers have found so successful since the beginning of time? I find, and this is just my opinion, that long post-titles turn me off - I don’t find them creative, interesting or engaging, just annoying. I wish people would stop it because I simply overlook their posts and curate elsewhere so they miss out on potential rewards.

Furthermore, I see so many posts that include blurry images, images loaded sideways, too many images, images that don’t relate to the words or have much relevance or simply don’t seem very interesting or impactful at all.

Again, humans think in pictures and the best way to capture someone’s attention on a blogging platform is with an interesting, impactful image. I would have thought that’s pretty obvious. I mean, imagine yourself in a bar trying to find a friend for the night but everyone was totally covered by a brown paper bag from head to toe...It wouldn’t be a very interesting bar to be in right? Now imagine the same bar where everyone has taken the effort to dress well, do their hair and make up and they’re smiling...Much better right? It’s the same on the blockchain. It’s about presentation.

I curate for @curangel, within my own communities and others and also generally around the blockchain so I see a lot of posts. There’s some really tremendous operators out there, and I love finding a new one now and then which happened recently. However there’s the opposite as well. I get the impression the low-quality posters are simply pushing out garbage content in the hope of a vote from a whale or large account who will never read the content, never engage and possibly never vote again. Maybe they’re content with that - Again, it comes back to us all being different and having different thoughts on how things should be. I’d not be content with it though, and I don’t think those accounts should be - It will not generate longevity.

It’s interesting you know, I’ve been approached directly on Discord so many times, it happens weekly, by complete strangers asking me to look at their posts, help them succeed (which means vote them) and generally just passively begging for a vote. I’m not even a big account! They don’t get the votes of course.

I wonder, do they ever think for a moment that they could build a relationships with me by commenting relevantly on my posts over time and then probably receive a vote from me on every post they do? Nope, they don’t think that, and so they don’t get it; the votes. Ever. I guess the lure of a vote leads them into that sort of low-effort behaviour and it's often evident on their posts.

All of us are different people as established above. We have different talents and skills and very different requirements from life. We all need or want something different from the blockchain as well I suppose. The thing that troubles me is that whilst people want the best from it they are loath to give their best to get it. I’m not sure if it’s because they don’t know how, are too lazy or have been spoiled by a whale vote that one time way back when so are conditioned to push posts out there and hope for another big vote that may never come. Rewarding low-effort on the blockchain will set low effort as the benchmark and that's not a good look for those looking at the blockchain externally. (Neither is those long-ass post-titles!)

I thought I’d dot-point a few key elements that have helped me build my account sine June 2017. I’m not a writer, and actually didn’t even finish high school, so I’m not sure if it’s the right method; it’s just my method and has seemed to work for me so I assume it might for others also. I approached Hive with the understanding that I’d have to promote myself to the community, draw the right sort of attention and build, then nurture, lasting relationships that I figured would return an enjoyment factor, (which it has), and some financial reward, (which it has).

Keep in mind that the list below may not relate to every single type of post or appeal to everyone - It’s just what worked for me. So here’s the dot-points.

  • Short, catchy titles that draw people in (I’d say about two to six words is ample)
  • An interesting or engaging main photo for visual impact (in focus follks)
  • Well-laid out text: Correct spelling, punctuation and use of paragraphs
  • Not too many images - (Create collages if there’s multiple images)
  • Don’t tag people in the post needlessly (including whales) - It's not a good look
  • Respond in a timely and relevant fashion to comments left on the post
  • Have fun, it’s your post after all - Show passion and personality
  • Proof read and take the time to review it before clicking post
  • Comment on other peoples posts with relevance and interest

Those are the main elements I applied when I first started and I still do so today. It’s certainly not the only way to build an account but it has worked for me, been enjoyable and sustainable and I’d say that’s a pretty good mix. I tend to like to do things as best I can, represent myself as well as possible, and I certainly like to have fun so applying these key elements ticks those boxes as well.

When I curate I look for these elements as I’m not inclined to curate work I don’t feel engaged with in some way and neither do I want to put my name to low-effort work just for a little curation reward; I'd rather not reward low effort at all. It's not difficult to take some care with posting or to remember that you're actually on show when you put a post on the blockchain - If the right steps are taken one can build lasting and very enjoyable relationships with others and that's where the real value will come from.

Y'all can do whatever you like, it generally won't affect others on the blockchain too much at all. Put in low effort and get low value in return. Inject some passion and personality, some ownership, responsibility and effort and it's likely you'll be rewarded for it Sure, it can take some time but it'll be a more lasting and sustainable reward.

Be different. Be yourself. But also be responsible for your own destiny here on the blockchain because what you do, or don't do, will dictate what returns you gain.


Design and create your ideal life, don't live it by default - Tomorrow isn't promised so be humble and kind

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Hola! Aquí Jaír, de EfectiVida.
Me ha resultado un artículo muy inspirador. Hay una frase que me vino a la cabeza, y creo que encaja:
Vive por diseño, no por accidente.
Un saludo desde Canarias!

I'm sorry, I don't speak Spanish but thanks for taking to time to look at my post.

To be sincere, the image in your post attracted my attention

Then it did its intended job. I took that with my macro lens as I liked the relevance to Hive/bees with the pollen on the flower. I thought it was a fitting image for this post.

I think it's a bit complicated, it depends on many things, that is, it's true what you say that it really depends on each person's taste. Each person has their own opinion, their own way of seeing things that maybe other people like and others don't, maybe that's where some conflicts arise.

I prefer to make small friendships here, I see many people making very interesting publications, that make me think and I can say what I think. A big power vote we all like, but really if that's the only reason we are here, it's not worth it.... It's much more enjoyable to share with others on HIVE!

I think you pretty much just paraphrased my entire 1800 word post in two paragraphs.

I think we have the same opinions, although as already mentioned, maybe other people see it differently and other aspects have more relevance haha.

Hi there, I hope you're doing great.

Yet another valuable reflection about Hive and its owners/users. I wish more people would take the time to write these kinds of posts, it would help shift the tide to genuine prosperity.

It's very interesting how the mind works, and how it's the 'little' details that actually allows us to connect with other people's work. For me, your titles and images are always on point, and even if I don't know what expects me I click the post and start to read, out of curiosity. I aim to achieve that as well.

I have an issue that I'm still working out: this new beginning as a blogger responds to an urge to express many things I have repressed over the years. Sometimes the thought of being judged scares me, but what can I do, I'm here to finally speak for myself. Even if my work isn't liked, I'm accomplishing my goal, right? Well, maybe not. Because the feedback is very important as well, it isn't good to feel like we're talking to a wall. On that matter, I also aim to make people connect with what I have to say.

When I'm not writing/working, I spend a lot of time reading other people's posts, out of curiosity of what's going on in their worlds. I comment/connect with the author when I truly like their content, for the sake of being honest. I also spend time on Discord doing a similar approach. I hope these actions lead me to build meaningful relationships in this space. That's what matters the most for me right now.

Thank you for opening this discussion and I hope it echoes to the right people. There's much to learn!

See you around.

Thanks for your comment and sharing part of your reasons for being here. I think you're on the right path.

It will take time to get the interaction but there's certainly value to be had from the simple act of expressing yourself, saying here what you may not say elsewhere. Some may judge it unfavourably but that's no different to real life. Best be true to yourself and content that the benefit will outweigh any negatives. Do what you're doing and you'll begin to make lasting connections.

Many people unknowingly forget about a truly meaningful purpose in the first place, especially after so many rewards and upvotes. Because the things that were familiar before don't add much value to them, and become complacent or frustrated when they no longer receive good votes.
I used to be like that too, and I went back to the question I was asking at the beginning of it "why choose Hive" and I realized that losing myself is a dangerous thing. I am an individual with a personality that is different from the majority of the crowd and I am proud of it. It may not help someone learn something new, but if it makes someone question themselves as they read my content, that's fine.
Sometimes in life also need to learn to be a little less serious, stop loading information a bit, slow down and observe the world more, they will receive an unexpected gift that only they can feel.

Very well said and it's good to hear your on a path that makes you comfortable within yourself.

Really this is a great post, refreshing to read!!! And I have to admit, the main image I can attest to, I came to your post because of that great image.

It's a nice image huh? I took that in my garden.

Everything you said about how you post and engage are true. The other day I was engaging, then I saw your comment on someone’s post, you told him that his title was too long. I started wondering how a short title should look like then I went through you post and saw how you format your posts, I’m trying to learn how to make a good and quality post.

Thank you for the advice, this post will really help me and a lot of individuals on hive blockchain.

Thanks for your comment. I've stressed the fact that we can all do as we please, however I feel so many good posts are getting missed because if overly long titles that really just turn people away rather than. Invite them in. Thanks why I made my post.

The title should be catchy, a prelude to what's to come rather than a flat and uninspiring body of text.

Sometimes I start my posts with a title, other times I add the title once I've written the post, either way though it is always quite short. Just a snippet of what may come. I also sometimes have fun and add click-bait titles, but not often.

We all need to develop our own style but I believe that titles, and main images need to grab attention.

Oh also, I hate it when people source the images they've used but put the source link above all their other text so the first word one reads in the text is source. It's just lazy and uncreative.

I'm glad you picked up something from this post. All the best.

Thank you🙂

I always wondered, how do you make a collages with photos?
Hehey, I also joined on June back in 2017! :)
Since then I kind of figured out.. mostly by accident and miss typing to change text and such. Slowly progressing as with photos, writing, reading.. kind of like a Pokemon
Thank you for another set of very practical tips and Thank you kindly to get the best out of us, making this platform so much greater, you rock!
!beer

Thanks mate, I've learned by trial and error also, and still do. I learned how to do red text the other day and have used it a couple times.

As for the collages...I use Google images. Easy as. There's other apps that do it though, including Canva.

Keep up the good work and thanks again for commenting.

Oh my... didn't know google offers so many modifications.... I haven't even thought about it.
You also helped me find so many old, lost photos and videos from way back, back to 2013, recorded on my now ancient galaxy S2 :)
Thank you soo much, as always you are my hero!

We're a community and are here to help each other. 😊

After more than a month of joining Hive, I was disappointed to realize that posts with good content got less support than posts with quite simple content but had beautiful images. I once wanted to ask whale moderators a question that is Hive only a place to rate photos? But after finding out about contests from many communities and you, I had more motivation and love to Hive. Contests allowed me to express myself, and I'm grateful for that. And over the past two months, although I have not received high rewards as who had posts with high-quality photos, I'm still very happy because I have more friends here, and my creative content is recognized in contests and supported by everyone. I'll continue with my goals, which are to have many new friends, new knowledge. Those are the core values ​​and also the first purpose that I came to Hive.

Very early on I decided to stop thinking about the financial rewards and focus on the fun, the enjoyment of writing and interacting; that's when things really started happening for me. I gained much better relationships and had far more fun...Focussing on the financial rewards will rarely make them any better.

"Furthermore, I see so many posts that include blurry images, images loaded sideways, too many images, images that don’t relate to the words or have much relevance or simply don’t seem very interesting or impactful at all..."

Whew... I dodged the bullet on this one. LoL

Giphy Monsters giphy on I say...

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"I mean, imagine yourself in a bar trying to find a friend for the night but everyone was totally covered by a brown paper bag from head to toe..."

Brown Bags or Beer Goggles...

Well this explains many of my wasted years...

Even in a brown paper bag your handsomosity would be evident.

When I used to dress up for the holiday season...

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And when I was 25 years old. I won 2nd place at my fave pub (Waterford Hotel) in a Halloween contest. Pictured here with my Father and his lady Linda.

My handsomosity is evident.

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The Shit Happens Demon...

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Haha, looking suave.