Love the photo! I am always concerned when children are involved. Having said that I would agree that it is an unfair system where a man is forced to pay for a child that is not his. Governments are not fair and usually pass laws for the sole benefit of the government. If they don't need to welfare for a child, so much the better. I can only imagine what a child must feel like growing up knowing that the man who is paying for him/her is not their father. Talk about rejection, by both the biological father and the man paying...
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Thank you. I know what you mean, I have concern for the child as well. But I agree, it would be hard growing up with that kind of rejection and bitterness from a man who was forced to support you.
My mom got next to no help from my dad. When he did pay support, he let me know he had to. I actually heard about it well into my adulthood. I know how that made me feel. I can only imagine how it would have felt had he not been my father.
Knowing he was my dad was the only reason I knew I had a right to be mad at him for being upset that he had to pay it.