Yep, you called it the right way. "Energetic vampires" they are indeed. Getting into arguments with these type of people you will be drained no matter if you right or not. You will not know it right away until you calm down and feel how much energy they drained out of you. It is pointless to argue with these people. Because they will like a "horse" with blinders only see one way.

Like you I just back out from the conversations like this and let them deal with themselves. Don't get me wrong I want to help everybody but once that person gets into that negative mode the best thing is to walk away. And, try to help some other day if possible. Some people don't see their ways, and don't want to be helped though.

I am glad you have ocean close to you which helps you find balance and peace. There is just something about the calming and amazing sensation of the ocean which literally heals your soul. :)