There's no reason to hate BTC just because you like or find BCH interesting. Unless you buy into the idea that one will kill the other and that whichever is killed should belong to the camp with "lesser people in it", you can support development on both chains and watch how they perform side by side in the market place.
Ignore the toxicity spread. There are also a lot of positive emotions and developments. It's just easier to make yourself heard in a smaller group and also easier to create sock puppets to manipulate and spread negativity.
It will all pass in time and as better forms of communication are created.
In crypto comparing one with another doesn't sounds good .
Competition is healthy whenever there is a better alternative. If a coin can't compete at least in some manner, it is not really worth anything.