I tend to agree with a moderate approach.
I view the whole BIP148 Segwit drama as just that, complete and utter dramatics that will culminate in either an upgrade or a delay. It doesn't change what Bitcoin does for me.
I can still use the network unimpeded, so I'm not really too concerned about it. There are plenty of people that are posting daily threads on other sites ranting and raving -- I don't see the purpose.
Just let the change happen, or not, the underlying technology is sound. It should be, after running non-stop for nearly 9 years now.
There's probably an optimal decision but I don't know what it is. My experience with investing tells me the worst thing for BTC would be a super long drawn out spell of infighting, confusion and uncertainty that turn away the mainstream.