At what point in life did communication become a lack of communication? Could it be that the time has come to ask ourselves, how much is technology helping us as people? Many people argue that because of video games, it is that young people confuse life, getting to shoot their peers and shoot themselves. Are we so confused in our lives that we no longer differentiate respect for others and for ourselves? We can put hundreds of excuses in our mouths and thousands of excuses in our fingers, to leave a person in sight, is like when you are making a comment, which in your personal life is relevant and the other person or other people do not make case, in the best of cases skip the uncomfortable silence after your comment and go directly to change the subject.
On the other hand in social networks this is not so, that awkward silence can last for hours, days, even weeks, you send a message, the software does what it has to do and feed you with a disappointing sight or with a double color popcorn blue, the other person had to see and read it, even generate some idea about the message, but oh oh did not cause the impression we wanted, that long pause, virtually eternal that is generated, we come to that lack of respect, that lack of value the time and interest of the other person by sending you a text message, we know that the other person saw the message, why not answer it? Ok the internet of things and the basic right to the internet have failed, so you may have run out of data, this on public transport, ran out of battery right at that time or had something else more important to do and is when this idea crosses our mind that everything collapses, no matter the string of nonsense and lies that we tell ourselves so as to justify the other person, to validate with arguments the affection we have to the other person, the fact is that time is still running and there is a limit where pum! we fall into the account of: "I really do not care so much", and does not necessarily have to be the person you like, can be your boss, your partner.
As if it were not enough, we fall into another trap, to continue insisting and continue sending messages, asking if everything is ok or a small lol; in a conversation with people in a bar or cafeteria this could practically not happen, there is always some kind of reaction, communication would continue even if it was nonverbal, however with technology this is not so, communication is cut off and is cold, we realize that it is flowing in one direction and when we keep insisting, do we fall into the trap of failing to respect ourselves? and the answer is yes, because the data is there, we send a message, we notice that the other person has already read it, it has been a considerable time and did not answer, obviously, is wanting to insist on dedicating your time to a person who does not is considering you or does not know how to express yourself.
That's why the most recommended, is to call, take the device look for it in your list of contacts and wait for everything to go well, not in the subway or have a signal, answer the other person and listen to what he has to say.
It would not surprise me that in the future, technology will advance to such a degree, where you can sign a prenuptial agreement in which you immediately pay your money, because the camera outside of a hotel detected the face of your partner with another person.
Change is coming!!! And i'm excited about it!!