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There is always a woman behind a great man, it seems we are not familiar with this quotes, that there is always a tough woman behind the greatness of a man. For men who already have a spouse who is a prominent female figure and a determinant of his success is the woman who is beside him (read wife *). For men, a formidable woman is needed not only to help her succeed in her career or job but to be a companion in navigating the household ark. This is where the dual function of a woman, because in addition to supporting the performance of the husband, but also must be able to take care of the household well.

Being a tough woman for the couple is very easy, because it must be ready to accept in any situation and condition. A woman must be ready to be a motivator when her partner is in a state of falling and sinking. When a man is saturated with any routine work, a woman should be able to become a comforter to re-create her excited, when a man is in need of a shoulder to lean so women should be ready to give his shoulder to his partner. In addition, a woman must also be ready when asked for opinions or solutions to solve a problem, or become a good friend of discussion.

A man needs a woman who understands his preoccupation, understands his personal character, is patient, and does not demand much less to press for his attention. And here is a woman tested, whether she is able to become a tough woman to accompany her partner. One of the things that a tough woman has in addition to understanding is independence, where she is able to provide for her own needs, does not mean having to work to meet her financial needs, but is meant independently here is not always rely on the couple. Just imagine if everything should depend on the couple, all sorts of little things just ask for opinions, of course this adds to the problem in a relationship.

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But what about a man who lives alone (like my friend), with his solitude he is able to become a success. It turns out that a woman behind a man is not just a wife or spouse, but it could be his mother. The role of the mother who can give a smooth touch in decorating thoughts and actions that always use logic. Yes, like most people. Men are considered to rely heavily on rational thoughts so that sometimes small things and smelly feelings often become umpteen numbers in their lives.

Here is the need for a female figure, to balance this basic nature. Not all problems can only be solved by logic but certainly also the feeling behind it. This balance will enable men to balance between thinking (ratio) and feeling, so as to form a formidable man. As many researchers say not only IQ (Intelectual Quality) alone is necessary for someone to achieve success but also Emotional Quality (EQ), in addition to Spiritual Quality. Although many often question the issue of gender, let alone to fight for the rights of women to have the same opportunities with men, especially in the world of work and other living rights, this is actually not necessarily disputkan and fuss. These two different beings are precisely when combined will give birth to power. And it seems also applied in the world of work today, women become male partners, vice versa. And everyone would not have to worry about it anymore. Herein lies why these two men can complement each other.

So, it is true that the great man behind him (in free translation, in his environment or in his life) there are strong women too. It is natural that the closest is the wife or spouse who became the main appraiser. But actually it could be more than that, for example his mother or even the friends and family who always inspired him.

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