7 WAY YOU'RE UNKNOWINGLY UNFAITHFUL TO YOUR PARTNER

    7 WAY YOU'RE UNKNOWINGLY UNFAITHFUL              
                           TO YOUR PARTNER

You are happy and satisfy with your spouse and there will be no way you would ever cheat on them .
Why would you anyways? You have no reason to and it can never crossed your mind .unfortunately , cheating dose not start the way most people tend to think. It creeps in disguised as harmless fun or innocent behavior leading down a slippery road full of regrets ..

To protect what you have, it is important to know whether you have fallen prey to any of these behavior and put a stop before it leads to something worse.

(1) FLIRTING

According to psychology today ,flirting is a time honored way of signaling interest and attraction, to say noting of mutual awareness . in shot it involve in speaking of behavior that shows sexual attraction accompanied what a sense of playfulness . it may start from innocently but it is a dangerous game if someone flirt with you ignore or set them straight .

If not ,it will lead to emotional cheating and before you know it , it will escalate in full blown cheating . flirting could also send the wrong message as an invitation to other person to pursue a relationship you didn't want in the first time .

(2) SPENDING TIME ALONE WITH MEMBERS OF
THE OPPOSITE SEX

It may not sound the bad considering you're both "adults" but remember cheating start from the most unexpected instances despite how you want to justify having coffee or stopping over to the member of the opposite sex where it is just to .

(3) TALKING NEGATIVELY ABOUT YOUR SPOUSE

When angry and hurt by our spouses many of us especially woman tend to look for nearest person to vent. Most of the time it is all negative. Just like you would never talk negative about your friend despite the shortcoming , take your partner as such . respect and be faithful to them in good and bad times. Don't go sharing your details and there shortcoming to other people. this unless, you have been abused.

(4) CONFIDING THE IN THE OPPOSITE SEX

The last person you should be shearing your relationship or marital problems with is a member of opposite sex. He or she may take advantage of your vulnerability and use it as chance to hit on you or even get physical with you. Do not place yourself in such situation. Discuss issues with your partner and let them be your shoulder to lean on. if you can not, talk to a trusted relative or church elder.

(5) RECONNECTING WITH AN OLD FLAME

You may say it just two old friend catching up and before you know it your love is rekindled. This will automatically your marriage or your relationship in jeopardy. Leave the past behind and no matter what assistance your ex need. There are other people who can help out. If you come across each other after a long time keep it casual and do not exchange contacts to be on the safer side, let sleeping dogs lies.

(6) DRESSING UP

If you find yourself dressing up more or even changing how you look because of a new attractive employee , neighbor or colleague, you need to be re-examine yourself. You should not go out of your to attract attention from member of the opposite sex. The only person you should dress up for beside yourself is your spouse.

(7) PUTTING OTHER PEOPLE BEFORE YOUR
SPOUSE

Kids from example can take up so much time and attention but that should not negate the importance of your spouse, They should always come first. Your kids can wait , attend to there need and be keen on what is happen in there lives. If you come across good or bad news your spouse should be the first person you share it with. If your husband or wife is not top of your priority list you are not showing then fidelity

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