Because I have this part in my brain which makes me feel super guilty for performing stunts like this

That's part of yourself you're working on! ☺

Brutal honesty might hurt at first, but in the long run it's less painful because it can open doors and lead to expansion. Of course sometimes it can also slam a door shut if the recipient isn't accepting. But another door or window is bound to open after that slamming, right?

Thank you so much for replying, I appreciate it. Take care!