No worries, @grandenchilada and dada.nyc, you have a great site and amazing service, I was just frustrated at the situation not at the site in general. I honestly love what you are doing and wish I had more time to add my 'conversations' to it, and hopefully will make more time in the future.
In many ways your site has encouraged me to see the possibility for more new virtual art worlds and I hope to be a part of the changing and emerging world that is appearing for artists and art lovers in our vastly changing world and art scene.
I can understand it must not be easy to run such a site and I'm rather impressed with you have done thus far. I also have an odd affect on tech (odd since I do much of my artwork digitally now) and often have things happen to computers and programmes that are just unexplainable, so I am used to odd things going wrong when working digitally.
And, as I said, lessons are everywhere to be found. Happy Accidents.