You are surely welcome to our discord channel.
I think I need to make a clearer distinction between reciprocity and showing gratitude. Perhaps they are interchangeable most of the time, but not always. I do pay it back out of gratitude our when I’ve led someone to believe that I would do so. For example, I try to check out posts by those who leave good comments. But I try not to have a feeling that I owe anything to anyone, rather that I appreciate them and want to express it by paying it back. I could say much more on this and will in my next post, thanks for bringing thst