look anarchy is not some rock solid solution you have to make it a solid solution.

all the things you have just in Consider all the things that CANNOT exist in anarchy can still exist in anarchy. its all in how much you put into it

example one way would be to set up a temporary government to create an education system(publicly controlled of course) to teach children moral's and skills that will make them grow in a fun and free way not some cookie cutter schools.
with this simple approach you have a very flexible way to grow in any direction the people choose. the possibility are endless with this approach
and add Cognitive psychology which is the scientific study of mind and mental function, including learning, memory, attention, perception, reasoning, language, conceptual development, and decision making. The modern study of cognition rests on the premise that the brain can be understood as a complex computing system. throwing this in there will allow a natural block of psychological control(they will know when they are being used)