HELP YOUR PARTNER TO HELP YOURSELF.

One of the most ridiculous thing I hear on my page " If you help out a man with expenses in the house, he will have spare for side chics".

You are all proud to say that you are married to or will marry men who use their spare money to bless other women. Does it not sound somehow to you that you are not married to or planning to marry men who do not know what long term financial security is. So every spare money is going to women not into a business plan, real estate or financial investment. It will go to women........

Sometimes advice yourself especially you singles, the married ones have entered so let them deal with it but you the single, how about determining to marry well. I already know what my long,short and medium term plan with my future husband will be. I already know the school plan for our kids and that we both need to work towards having a stable family life. If you have all this in focus, marry a decent ,well grounded man, you will stop being so damn calculating. Ask widows,single women and single mothers who they are sharing bills with and you will appreciate what you have when you have a life partner to share the bills with and you will do it happily not because you think you are entitled to a man's suffer head for having a vagina The best marriages are all partnership with each partner working to ensure they both prosper in body, mind and bank. Drop this entitlement mentality already, it is 2017 not 1997.