You attract what you are

There is this constant will to have the best set of people with us, we tend to complain when those around us aren't stepping up, we want to be able to flaunt our friends, our finances, our parents e.t.c so we always want to make sure that they are people you can boast of.
While concentrating on these people progress we sometimes fail to progress ourselves. Have we forgotten that we attract what we are? Stop being selfish and lead by example, when you step up they will too, stop expecting so much when you are not becoming so much.
You want love give love,
You want those around you be great then be great yourself... That the law of nature