Hi, guys.
Sky is back.
Recently, I got in touch with a lot of people.
I've gotten to know some new people.
In the process, I could really see how people differ from each other in terms of behavior and how people behave in front of others.
People ask me to introduce myself and tell them more about myself. I do that and ask them to do the same. Before you think, you are in a long conversation with someone you just met. Then you also see how much you have in common and also therefore what makes you unique.
With some people I can click right away, but with others then it becomes a bit awkward. You're always going to have that. I like getting to know people, but then I feel threatened when they start asking too many questions. I'm a private person, and so sometimes I feel attacked by all the questions people may ask.
Sometimes I'm in a group, with people talking about all kinds of things. Of course I talk along too, but then I also have strange questions and comments in the back of my mind. Things like, why are these people talking so much, why is this one laughing so hard? Is it necessary to ask that question? Can't you see that you are just spouting nonsense? And then the sudden urge to tell people to shut up. But I keep all that to myself.
Recently, I also often hear people say that they are not a people's person. I totally understand when people say that. But then I also think of does one take it as a trend or do they really mean it. I've also seen extroverts who suddenly say that, just to fit in. You must never make yourself into someone you are not. People change, so it's possible, but if that's not you then you shouldn't say it to fit in either.
Some people have their reasons why they choose to distance themselves from others. You also have others who are just introverts and socially awkward. But then you also have really different people who just generally don't like others. It's just the way it is! I, for example, do enjoy interacting with people, but then I also often have moments where I enjoy being alone. I don't even feel alone then. Furthermore, I don't hate humans, but I do find certain behaviors of human beings really annoying. Hence, also those strange questions in the back of my mind.
I always love it when I see others talking so confidently and having a good time. I also think it's a shame when certain people step into a room and ruin a cozy atmosphere. Just seeing them, that whole cozy atmosphere is gone and everyone withdraws.
I want to hear from you what you think of this saying.
I would also like to know when you discovered that you are not a people's person and why you think that too.
That's it sweeties
Ciao
