African women are expensive?
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Is this a bad thing? Well, many times, it very much involves the quality of the man involved. As much as you wish your woman was affordable, there men who see the above as virtue. Yes, some men need a woman by their side, who wants the finer things of life, as this gears them up and keeps them on their toes, not resting on their laurels.
Not to generalize much, not all African women are expensive. Some are simply just driven and want a driven man as well. I mean, if a woman has gone through all the sophistication; made up her face with all the luxurious cosmetics Victoria secret holds to show her face before you, you don't expect to be buying her 2-piece chicken from a local eatery. Guys luxury up. This doesn't mean becoming overly ambitious like the world is suddenly in competition against you! This is simply constructive, valid, well-placed reminder and indication that you should step up.
Well, if you are man of character and one with top-notch vision, you will definitely pull the date of and sweep her off her feet. It was never really about her being expensive all along; it was more about the quality of your own substance, the tightness of your own game; the stuff you are made up.
Some women simply want to be told this. They simply want to feel your presence. They want to see you walk and their minds: there goes my man! She should have room for this choice. She is princess!
Yes, give her the world and don't touch her! Be quality!
If she is too expensive, spoil her to teach her and next time, tell her to invite her friends and spoil them too! Don't fret! How much is the chump change that she is asking: A Versace gown? Gosh go it!
That is what being a man is!
"Boys" simply become men and perhaps, this apparently expensive woman wasn't that expensive after all.
Women do deserve the best in reality! They need extra pampering and they simply have come to know it. Next thing is for you to realize that too as a man.
African dad's will still stroke you as a young boy, even if your had the best result in your class, if your percentage was 79. They will accept that from their daughters though. Yes, they will stroke you for not getting a 90, not because they are cruel dad's but simply because, you are a boy and you will have to feed a home.
Dad's are grown men. They could see! A woman is a woman; regardless of all the glitz and glamour; regardless of skin color and nature; regardless; she has that special soft spot. You, be a man!
I love black women but your entitlement is too much. White women work for everything that they have but our black girls expect to hang onto the coat-tails of a man who's going somewhere. He's going to treat you as liability and dump your ass the second you become less sexy. Meanwhile, Asian girls are concentrating on being the greatest lays their men have ever had which is why their divorce rates are so low. Asian girls are winning, white girls don't care and black girls are getting traded in.
I don't disagree with you with regards to the entitlement. The tone was mostly for some inspiration to the men. For the most part, balance is the key. I like you broke it all down. Your experience shows. With Asian women, it depends on the man still and the Asian in question, for a more settled man, an Asian girl wins but for a young aspiring man, that may not be the case.
Especially so for a young aspiring man. His wife must be a safe haven from every vulture out there who's trying to squeeze as much as they can out of his wallet. The right woman is an asset who encourages him to use his money wisely. The wrong woman is a liability demanding new shoes every other week. My previous girl called it 'bae expenses' which is why she's not my current.
Hahaha, thank you for stating your experience. "bae expenses"; yes it gets to that extreme. All good. Balance is important.