Indeed, you need to be your happy self to attract your soulmate to you. But you would be amazed to know that what you think is your ideal mate, may not be really an ideal mate for you (if that makes sense). So we all should be open to surprises (good ones) because our soulmate may not fit perfectly under the narrow scope of our definition of an ideal mate. Meaning, they may not have everything we require them to have, but they will certainly have qualities we will be pleased with beyond our expectations. Thanks for reading and commenting :)