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RE: You Shouldn't Take Advice From Those Who Are Successful

in #advice7 years ago

the foto of that guy on the Ferrari looks sooooo succesful ahahah he looks like a twat.
cool read, but i dont totally agree that everything is luck. for example, if you see a girl that you find incredibly attractive and you wan to ask her out your not gonna just rely on "luck" to get her. if you did you would never get her, shes not gonna approach you, or even care who you are. people that say "i got lucky last nite" or with anything, they dont focus there energy on what they actually want.
they half ass it, they are afraid people are afraid of the things they want - success.

so i find that if i focus on the things that i want, luck has nothing to do with it, it comes down to me and how im taking control over my wants and needs. sure luck may play a small part in it, but overall its the effort to put into something that the results will come out.

I just realized that people are lazy, they dont want to put the work in, so they rely on "luck" ha!
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if you did you would never get her, shes not gonna approach you, or even care who you are.

why not? she doesn't have a mind of her own? You could play her with your eyes and she could still come over.

never said you have no control at all. I said it is mostly luck.

I know you never said that. Im saying that its not mostly luck, its skill, determination, knowledge, hard work, time and so on. you cant just walk around and telling people that situations have happened to you cuz of your good luck, its more than just luck is all im saying

and about the girl thing, 9 times outta 10 she aint gonna approach you, I have bin approached b 1 girl in my life, but i have approached thousands. your the man, you gotta take all the risk, just the way it is in the dating game.

of course not.

nd about the girl thing, 9 times outta 10 she aint gonna approach you, I have bin approached b 1 girl in my life, but i have approached thousands.

maybe she is not worth it then. Why approach a woman that is so ...traditional? :)

i guess its a bit of an adrenaline rush. call me old skool than, im a man and ill act like a man, not one of these new age sensitive bi*(#@%

you can get the same rush even if you are old school