Your cheating will eventually be revealed. We live in a world of no secrets. Eventually, all the skeletons would have to come out of the closet.

Couldn’t agree more. It’s only in your mind thinking “it’s difficult to be with one person for the rest of your life”. There is no person in this world worth to be cheating with on my wife. I’m almost 20 years married, I’m 40 years old, I love my wife, she takes care of me, I take care of her. Of course there are ups and downs in our marriage, but that’s part of it. Just like you mentioned, if someone married lets himself loose and betray his other half, he has to be stupid not to think there isn’t a chance he would destroy his marriage. It’s not worth to take these kind of chances. Eventually, the truth comes out. If it doesn’t, would you be able to live with this for the rest of your life? Unfortunately there are soo many cases similar to your story, that’s why divorce layers are so profitable these days. I love your advices. At the end ask your self “is she worth loosing your wife and destroying your family?” I bet these people, now in their old age regret it soo much, and if they had a chance to change it, they wouldn’t hesitate for a second.