That's what they said that it is easy to fall in love but hard to stay in love. Temptation is everywhere. You'll going to face several temptation tthat would test you and if you didn't overcome that then you lose. It's your decision to continue the cheating or not. But, always remember the consequences. Are you willing to stand on that? Is it worth it? Is 10 years with your wife is nothing? Think again, be responsible enough.