Do You Make These Mistakes…when dealing with difficult people

THE LAZY MANS GUIDE TO DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE
Are you a difficult person?
Do you deal with difficult people at home or working place?
Do you want to learn tips and strategies to effectively, manage and live peaceful without breaking, a sweat as easy as tieing your shoes
If so, this will be the most important message you will ever read,
Here is why
do you know that dealing with difficult persons can increase your heart beat, decreases your productivity at work, lead to sleep insomnia, and other life threaten conditions ,like high blood pressure and increase the risk of stroke,
However, here is the best part
You can easily deal with them, without any fisticuffs’
I know, wait it is not what you are thinking.
…by avoiding them
…fighting them
…or keeping your distance
…ok here is it
It contains tips and strategies developed by mother Theresa and Mahatma Gandhi that will complete change the way you deal with people.
Get ready as I take you through this important journey.
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Ten simple but powerful Tips for you when Dealing with Difficult People

1. When dealing with difficult people, it is more effective to be assertive rather than angry. Anger can be contagious, so try to avoid “catching” the other person’s hostility.

2. Learn to recognize low levels of anger in others. This can allow you to
   Intervene earlier and create resolutions more easily. Listen to language and
   Watch nonverbal cues as well. Is someone’s tone changing or his or her volume increasing?

3. Use a technique called “fogging”. Say something general or broad such as “That’s interesting”, when inwardly you disagree.

4. Work at accepting difficult people while still not liking their difficult
   Behavior. This allows you to get some distance from the behavior itself, and
   Gain a more expansive perspective.

5. Consciously being nice to difficult people can sometimes be a great way of dealing with them. However, do guard against passive aggressiveness
   On your own part. In other words, don’t be loving and/or collaborative if it feels dishonest to do so.

6. Try to get a better sense of what sets the other person off. Notice what his or her buttons are, and avoid hitting them, if possible.

7. Compromise! Give in or some things and learn to see compromise as a
   Strength rather than a concession.

8. Listen actively. Ask for clarification of what the other person has said instead of arguing with them. Focus on their needs and your own, not just the “issue”.

9. Ask yourself what you may be doing to contribute to the problem; If you’re stuck, talk it over with a counselor or trusted friend.

10. Keep your distance from those who seem unsafe. See your fear as a cue, warning sign, or “gift”. Set limits with inappropriate behavior; Make it clear you will not tolerate this and will seek help if the situation doesn’t change. If you feel you’re in danger, notify appropriate personnel/authorities and take whatever reasonable steps necessary to protect yourself

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This is not about me, it is about you.

You can decide to help others or not If you restreem or not
Restreem now to help others now and most importantly your followers

source www.edcc.edu/counseling/documents/tips_000.pdf