Men are abused as well

in #abuse3 years ago

https://fb.watch/c5mWN-xkN9/

Source from Facebook video on how men are abused by their partner.

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A lot of people do not understand that some men can be abused by their woman.

It's almost like a taboo topic because men cannot share the stories of the abuse because no one would listen.

I still remember when I told my friends and family about me being abused but they all said the same come on man it's a girl how bad can it be?

People laugh at you when a man confess about they being abused because the world believed that woman is always the victim men is always the abuser it became a norm where men cannot complain to anyone.

Men are told to shut up and be strong be a man don't be a pus#y and handle the problem. Some friends even told me just slap that bit#h a sl#t need to know her place etc.

But some men do not hit women some men do trying their best to be the best man they can be. Even when the woman you're with has fu#k buddies fu#k other people's husbands, having one night stands is fine to some of our society it's celebrated even.

In the end men we are on our own we can't tell anyone that's why most men are quiet because they know no one would believe them even when the truth has been presented to their friends and family it's still our fault you know why? They said who ask you to be with her in the first place?

I knew I needed to leave I left a hundred time but her friends and family beg me to come back because even her own friends and family couldn't stand her so they just need to get rid of her asap so the problem will be my own.

Cutting her left hand and accuse that I did it. Overdose on pills many times but didn't admit it. Went to mental hospital due to she can't control me and keep me in a cage. I refuse marriage many times but she used her mother to convince me everything is fine. I cleaned and fix the filthy house to make sure everyone will have a safe place to live.

She was screaming and shouting at me almost on a daily basis. When my brother died she made fun of me. She threatened me daily that I will die. I wanted to work but she used her friends and family not to go. I bought tickets to leave but of course she made Bollywood drama by bringing her mother to the airport and chase me not to go. A lot of other abuse that I can't even say due to the seriousness of the crime.

But it's fine the moment I'm free there is no more danger and I'm safe from being manipulated by the devil she is.

I give you an example like the video you about to watch how men are abused.

Choose your partner wisely leave before it's too late. I'm lucky I left if not I won't be here to share with you my story.

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So sorry for this to happen to you. I hope you're doing good with your healing process. 😊

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Doing perfect these days. Everything is smooth.

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