Im not agienst abortion or saying it should be illegal. I think the option should be there I just think that getting prego (by choice) thn aborting the baby later seems stupid as hell. If you don't want the baby don't choose to get prego or don't get someone prego. I see a huge difference in day after pill and waiting 2 days before giving birth to get an abortion. but as the author of the post says, its the same thing in their opinion and the baby doesn't matter if its 9 months old as lon as its still in the mother.
Whatever though, not my kids getting murdered so I shouldn't care. I do feel if you make the choice to get prego you have the responsibility to raise the kid. but we dot hold people accountable or responsible for their actions anymore so lets just abort all the bad dcisions and learn nothing so we can keep repeting the process.
LOL
Maybe I see it wrong because I was brought up understanding that if I made the choices to do something and got a girl prego that I would be faced with the responsibility to raise the kid. but I guess that's only because the man has no say in what happens to his kids tll they are born. I am surprised women don't get held to the same standard or they don't want to get held to the same standard to their male counterparts.
but I guess that's only because the man has no say in what happens to his kids tll they are born.
That's the difference. A man isn't responsible for a fetus/unborn child; unless he chooses to through helping the mother in some way; though there's still no equivalence to the male and female experience.
last time I checke you can get birth control over the counter.
or the day after pill
or condoms
or a sponge
or don't have sex
I think unless your getting raped that getting prego is a choice even if it was the choice to be lazy and have sex knowing you might get prego because you choose to not take something or whatever it is.
If it is a choice then their should be no need for abortions for anyone unless they were raped (forced) into prego or unless it has a chance of killing the mother.
So idk
Im not coming from a religious perspective, just a personal responsibility point of view.
People should be held accountable for their actions imo.
Abortion comes off to me as a easy solution for people to stupid or lazy to take percautions to not have a baby in the first place. Why not take birth control, or whatever the options are to not get prego if that's not what you want?
But what medication someone can take would only cancle out a couple of the many options we have.
You're right, the reasons women have an unplanned pregnancy are entirely irrational, and irresponsible. The individual circumstances are infinite. Sometimes when women feel the most horny enough to have risky sex, is the time when pregnancy is going to occur.
The option should be a choice. It does no benefit to anyone to make it illegal. It doesn't save lives. Being pregnant, having a baby, doesnt make anyone accountable.
Also a lot of birth control methods work by triggering an 'abortion' in event the first defense fails. It makes the uterus inhospitable to a fertilized egg. Can't know for sure if that method has gone down inside the womans body. Dead baby? lol
How does the man not have responsibilities till after the child is born?
I have never been told that if I get a girl prego that im not responsibil till the kid comes out. we are told that if you get the girl prego then you are responsible for the child or you are deemed a piece of shit by society.
I am not trying to compare the male to female experience. I was talking about responsibilitys for ones actions. gender/sex has no room in that equasion.
I personally believe that both parents should have a say in the outcome for equality.
But equality be dammed. lol
I fall back to my original point that getting prego in this day and age when you could not get prego if you choose to do so comes with concequences. they can be accountable and responsible for their choices and actions or not. Either way it is a choice they are making to kill the baby, plain and simple imo.
Atleast I don't think we are talking about forced abortion. D:
Im not agienst abortion or saying it should be illegal. I think the option should be there I just think that getting prego (by choice) thn aborting the baby later seems stupid as hell. If you don't want the baby don't choose to get prego or don't get someone prego. I see a huge difference in day after pill and waiting 2 days before giving birth to get an abortion. but as the author of the post says, its the same thing in their opinion and the baby doesn't matter if its 9 months old as lon as its still in the mother.
Whatever though, not my kids getting murdered so I shouldn't care. I do feel if you make the choice to get prego you have the responsibility to raise the kid. but we dot hold people accountable or responsible for their actions anymore so lets just abort all the bad dcisions and learn nothing so we can keep repeting the process.
LOL
Maybe I see it wrong because I was brought up understanding that if I made the choices to do something and got a girl prego that I would be faced with the responsibility to raise the kid. but I guess that's only because the man has no say in what happens to his kids tll they are born. I am surprised women don't get held to the same standard or they don't want to get held to the same standard to their male counterparts.
That's the difference. A man isn't responsible for a fetus/unborn child; unless he chooses to through helping the mother in some way; though there's still no equivalence to the male and female experience.
last time I checke you can get birth control over the counter.
or the day after pill
or condoms
or a sponge
or don't have sex
I think unless your getting raped that getting prego is a choice even if it was the choice to be lazy and have sex knowing you might get prego because you choose to not take something or whatever it is.
If it is a choice then their should be no need for abortions for anyone unless they were raped (forced) into prego or unless it has a chance of killing the mother.
So idk
Im not coming from a religious perspective, just a personal responsibility point of view.
People should be held accountable for their actions imo.
Abortion comes off to me as a easy solution for people to stupid or lazy to take percautions to not have a baby in the first place. Why not take birth control, or whatever the options are to not get prego if that's not what you want?
But what medication someone can take would only cancle out a couple of the many options we have.
You're right, the reasons women have an unplanned pregnancy are entirely irrational, and irresponsible. The individual circumstances are infinite. Sometimes when women feel the most horny enough to have risky sex, is the time when pregnancy is going to occur.
The option should be a choice. It does no benefit to anyone to make it illegal. It doesn't save lives. Being pregnant, having a baby, doesnt make anyone accountable.
Also a lot of birth control methods work by triggering an 'abortion' in event the first defense fails. It makes the uterus inhospitable to a fertilized egg. Can't know for sure if that method has gone down inside the womans body. Dead baby? lol
How does the man not have responsibilities till after the child is born?
I have never been told that if I get a girl prego that im not responsibil till the kid comes out. we are told that if you get the girl prego then you are responsible for the child or you are deemed a piece of shit by society.
I am not trying to compare the male to female experience. I was talking about responsibilitys for ones actions. gender/sex has no room in that equasion.
I personally believe that both parents should have a say in the outcome for equality.
But equality be dammed. lol
I fall back to my original point that getting prego in this day and age when you could not get prego if you choose to do so comes with concequences. they can be accountable and responsible for their choices and actions or not. Either way it is a choice they are making to kill the baby, plain and simple imo.
Atleast I don't think we are talking about forced abortion. D: