"the mother should be able to decide about her own body since she is the providing life—and she will continue to do so after the baby is born. She is solely responsible for it. The potential offspring can have a major negative impact both in her mental and social life. She owes to treat the birth like an investement for her own livelihood. We get to live only once."

Everyone conceived gets the chance to live this life once and the pregnancy is the biggest single part of the beginning of that lifetime. The time to choose that, for those reasons is before becoming pregnant.

I can understand other peoples choices, even if I don't agree with them or choose to do them myself. Like the woman who got attacked and couldn't live with those consequences; who am I to say how she feels?

The right to preserve ones lifestyle and livelihood and conception of a new life should be thought about beforehand.

Either way whatever others choose to do, only they have to live with what comes after but they do not have to bash me over the head trying to convince me they had that right. Obviously they had that opportunity and chose to do it but is that the same thing? and does it help to try and convince others?