prologue: If you think about it, the situation in which married people cheat on their spouses or lovers contradicts any logic or rational behavior. How come people choose with a clear mind and direct intent to turn their backs to the man or woman they loved so much in the past, so much so, that at some point they chose to intertwine their faith with theirs?

But reasonable or not, like any human behavior there must be a comprehensible explanation to that phenomenon, one that I wish to share with you in the following words.

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People are not evil

Their intents are well and the means to achieve those are also appropriate according to their best judgment. No one will reasonably ask to hurt someone else just for the sake of hurting or destroy someone else's life for reasonable reasons. Therefore, the conclusion must be that when people consciously choose to act against any reason something else must be involved, a cause from a different kind of order. This order is the emotions, and the almost unexplainable inner reality which we are all based in. In particular, the name for this affecting energy is seduction. People make irrational choices because they follow potential events that seduce them.

The three levels of seduction:

• The physical seduction – men mostly, or manly oriented people, are notorious to lose interest in their spouses at some point during the relationships. Then, as a remedy, they choose to have an affair with another person, a new person. I know I am generalizing here but for the sake of the argument let's continue. While those people would admit that they still love their legal spouses and want to remain with them, they report that they have a great need for the new. And this is the key point. NEW. They are not aware enough of their own psyche and its levels, let alone the psyche of their spouse, and so they think, mistakenly of course, that the physical body of their spouse is all there is. That that illusionary representation of the consciousness called "spouse" is their entire spouse. Based on that erroneous belief they easily fall prey to the seductive physical attributes of another person who, in time, will also tire them off and compel them to seek a new version of that seduction. And so on and so forth.

This seductive energy is strong and appealing since it cannot be reasoned and the person feels as if the physical forces are much stronger than they are. The way to handle it is by changing the belief that brought it up in the first place. Meaning, to understand and then to feel the infinite levels of one's spouse which are coupled in their physical body. Then, a look is seen differently, a kiss is felt different each time anew, and the various physical bodies of the same person are finally revealed. One of life's rewards is to be able to wake up each morning next to the same person, to feel their seemingly same body, and realize – with their sense, mind and heart - that nothing is actually the same in that moment, let alone the person who they went to bed with last evening. You will have to try it yourself to know what I am talking about.

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• The rational seduction – This type of energy is easy to trace. When you find yourself thinking - "is that all?", "am I going to end my life without trying other relationships?", "why can't I have a beautiful, young and attractive spouse like my friend/neighbor/favorite celebrity has?", then know that you are at the edge of the pitfall. Will you fall? It's up to you. The prominent energy that works here is seduction. You are maneuvered by your mind who tries to convince you (for its own reasons which I will not get into now) that you are not good enough as you are now, that your life can be better, that other people's lives are better, that you will be a sucker if you do not do this or that.

The Seduction is cast upon you from everywhere and the electronic media (TV, Internet) plays a big part in that. The way to handle it is first by recognizing it when it comes to "visit" you, to listen to it, hear its message, and then release it with the knowing and the feeling that you know what you are doing, that you are leading your life according to your inner wisdom and no mind or Ego oriented patterns could lead you astray.

• The Emotional seduction – as strange as it may sound to you, the emotional seduction is the easiest of them to identify. Many people claim that their emotions and feelings are stronger than they are, beyond their control, and so they are bound to follow their tracks. "I fell in love with her instantly. I knew it was wrong but I couldn't help myself" is a typical excuse for cheating. However, such an event, when occurs, is merely the outside outcome of much earlier psychic processes. The emotional bond with another person other than your current spouse is a reflection of another aspect of your own being, an aspect which you have not yet discovered or had the intention to find out about. Your falling in love with another person is a direct response to your preceding request to save your relationship, to revive them, to bring to them the necessary boosting energy so they could last for many more years.

Naturally, the seduction will tell you to take the "fast track" – to follow your new emotions, to refresh your heart with this new lover. However, you should know that although following the temptation will not make you a sinner, you will only bypass the basic issue and once the new emotions towards that new lover will fade you will have to face again the old issue of you, your spouse and your joint relationships.

The common denominator of people who choose to cheat is their false thought that the lack they feel inside, the hole within their heart or mind, could be filled by an external element. The truth, however, remains the same - the fulfillment of the human desires and cravings can only be found in the soul-self, in that illusive yet always present consciousness that so many are ignorant of.

Let it be clear that I do not judge people who cheat. Nor I have any agenda or desire to influence your behavior. No matter what you do, at the "end" we all "learn the lesson" and get to know the bigger picture and our place within the grand reality. Some take the easy road. Other choose differently. Cheaters or not you are loved always.

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Declaration of Sovereignty

We are living in unique times. Energies of all kinds are constantly swirling and spinning around us looking for ways and portals through which they could enter this plane of existence, the physical reality. We, human beings, serve as such portals. Some types of energies we welcome, others we prefer to avoid.

Seduction is a type of very strong energy. Strong in the sense of ability to feed off of us, draw from us our mental and emotional resources and ultimately leave us drained and exhausted. For example, many of you are familiar with the "yucky" feeling after having sex with someone you don't really like, just for the sake of physical pleasure. Many of you are familiar with the feelings that are involved in gambling. When you win - you feel great (and want more). When you lose you feel powerless and not worthy. In both examples, you are allowing parasite energies to feed on you. They will never have enough. They will always want more, and so, many people find themselves caught in a merry-go-round of consuming sex, money or food.

This is not an appropriate situation at all and may take one's life away completely. Often times literally. You might find yourselves going through an entire lifetime of submission to those seductive energies, giving your powers to them. Slowly, in small quantities, your life force will be pulled away, taken from you, bit by bit. The consequences are dire - deteriorating health, lose of abundance, lack of sovereignty.

And exactly here lays the solution, in claiming back your sovereignty.

Not many people are given the opportunity to face the challenge of seduction. If you read this then your soul knows how strong and competent you are. Therefore, you have given yourself this challenge.

As an answer to your request here I am, suggesting to you to remember your true mastery. Boldly and firmly, without hesitation or any reservation, claim your powers. Declare, verbally or otherwise, that you and you alone are the chief of your life. That no one but you has the power to use you or the permission to feed on you.

I have drafted the following statement. Please feel free to copy and use it in your own life.