Losing Virginity At Young Age.. Is It A Big Deal? Well, For Me..

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So, the important thing that I wanted to share to all of you guys is all about the virginity of women. There's no green minded thing about this because I had experience being with a girl or women when I was studying in high school and also in college.

Most of the time when I was at my teenage time, I would rather thell the truth that I had been in the situation of getting some sexual interactions with some of the girls that I had met and all of them didn't had any experience about sexual things. When a man meets a girl who don't have any knowledge about some sorts of sexual things and that man is the first to do it with her, it means that he is a real man and that was the silly thought that I had ever known because, when I realized that all that I did to those girls who I used to have one night stand, I felt so bad about it but, I know that it would not be the same again for them because it did happened already.

Anyway, let's just change the topic because I think you are all having bad thoughts about me now, Lol! Don't be mad at me, I was just like a silly teenager before who didn't know all about respect and I really admit that I wasn't one that person before for the girls that I had been through.

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Only a few women who are still virgin before they get married because they know that if they would have sex to a man they loved and they are still not married, they would think that the man would possibly throw them away because the things that a man wanted to happen is finished. But, not all men are like that and also, only a few men could wait for the time when will they take their hands to their partner.

In this generation, virginity does matters for the people who are still in the form of having respect to their families or within themselves but, most of them are curious and wanting to try what would it be like and how does it feel when they are having sexual things. This is also the reason why there are lots of teenagers who were pregnant in their young age because they think that sex is only a funny thing that they would like to experience.

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Some parents are having a hard time knowing that their daughters or sons would be soon a father and a mother and most of them are very disappointed and ashamed to know all about it. The feeling of being a parent would be rather feeling so down and didn't know what to do but, ignoring the child inside her tomb would be more worst and a sin from the eyes of our God.

Every little thing that we are doing in this world are being watched by the man above and he knows what we are doing and what we will do or what will happen to our future. So, we all must be ready or must be open minded about the things around us and we must prepare ourselves on what will happen in our future.

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So, the question is, will you still love a woman who already loses her virginity? For me....

Of course, yes. I had this beautiful woman who I didn't know that she already had two kids and those two kids are twins. I had known this woman when I was about 19 years old and the moment that we slept together, that was the moment that I knew that she wasn't a virgin anymore but, it didn't made me stop loving her but instead, we still continued our good relationship. Then, a couple of weeks later, the time came up that I wanted to know her parents and when I came to her home, I was shocked on what I had seen. She already had 2 sons and then I thought a lot of things. After a hours of talking to her, I understood what she felt by explaining to me that why didn't she told me before and she told me that she was afraid that I would not love her or be with her. We still continued our relationship till the moment of the time that we would be seperated to each other. Our relationship lasted about a year and the reason why we broke up was about a serious thing that I wouldn't want to tell you guys. Hope you'll all understand me.

Loving a woman who lost their virginity was not important for me because I know that love is not a thing that you could learn because of virginity, it's your heart that can prove that love is all around and love is understandable thing that God gave us.

I knew my wife in this present time that she already had lost her virginity but, we didn't talk about it ever since we'd met and now, we are having a very good time together with our two sons.

Follow your heart and everything will be all well.

@michaelcabiles

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Yes I did. Thanks for the story my friend. Keep eSteem On!

As always, man! :D

tema muy interesante,saludos

What I don't like are these unmarried, teenage mothers who brazenly declare they're "proud" of becoming parents way before the proper time and shamelessly strut around claiming what happened to them is a "blessing". I'm like b!tch please. 🙄

Pakapalan na lang ng mukha para pagtakpan ang kahihiyan nila.

Oh, Mukang may galit ka sa kanila ah... Hhahaha! :D

Di naman masyado, naiinis lang. :Þ