Day 30 #365grateful

in #365grateful6 years ago (edited)

Today I was forced to opened up about how I feel and what I think. I am so blessed that I have someone that I called my Best Friend that is full of life wisdom.

She was always the crazy random type. Like she would suggested to do this one crazy thing at a random moment. Hahaha it was quite unbelievable at 1st. But after a while I just go used to it so much that i wasn't even surprised anymore. Hahahhaa
She was like that crazy and random. Very adventurous and daring. Fun type. But who knew she would tell me the best piece of advice that i still hold on to till this moment.

HAVE NO REGRETS

There was this one time that I seriously screwed up. It was the dumbest thing that I've ever done. And I was totally numb from the pain that I was totally lifeless. I was blaming myself so hard. I condemned myself. I cursed myself. Totally beating up myself.

And I told her what happened to me. And as a best friend she would say comforting words to me. She was really trying her best to help me get back up, to pick myself up. And the one piece of advice that she said to me that really impacted me greatly at the very moment was HAVE NO REGRETS.

When she said those words, my mind just went Ting! That was so true. I shouldn't live with regrets in my life. Besides, I only have this one life to live. And i don't want to live my life feeling miserable because I chose to hold on to my regrets! Sure, I was dumb. Sure, I screwed up. Sure, it ruined me. Sure. But why choose to live this life in regrets???

And at that very moment, I picked myself up. And start living again and stopped feeling lifeless. And i still hold on to that very words. HAVE NO REGRETS.

So today I met up with that very same best friend of mine, and again I was surprised by how wise and insightful she is! ❤❤❤ and again, I am so blessed to have her in my life. God really sent her in times of me screwing up in my life.

She confronted me about the things that has been bothering me. And i refused to tell her. But she made me say it anyway. She always have her ways in making me do what she wants. Hahahaha but yes, she made me tell her about the things that have been bothering me. And as much as I felt so embarrassed to tell.. even I got hard time trying to accept it, I just told her about it. And again, she had the most insights and wisdom from anyone else that I know. She views life in such a positive way. And her insights are amazing I tell you! ❤

And I am so blessed to have her in my life. I thank God for giving me comfort when I needed one.

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This is one of the crazy random thing that she wanted to do together with me today. Painting using water colour!

The technique that we learned from here was.. COLOUR CONTROL

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Next we painted some flowers!

These are one of the things thhat I've done with her today. And it was so much fun. I just discovered my talent for coloring! Hehe

There go folks, I will go to bed now as I am quite tired from today. So many different kind of emotions being projected out today

GOD BLESS YOU 🌹

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You have a minor misspelling in the following sentence:

And as much as I felt so embarassed to tell.
It should be embarrassed instead of embarassed.

Got it! Thanks!

HAVE NO REGRETS

exactly, what ever happened is meant to either provide value or lessons in life. latching on to the past makes you waste the potential of the present and diminish the value the future.

Great that you have such healthy mindset now!

I learned a lot from my past experiences and from people around me! And i am still learning every day. Thank you @awesomianist 😁 for me, it's the ultimate bliss in life to have a healthy set of mindset rather than all the wealth in this world but with an unhealthy mindset 🌼🌼🌼

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